This is 2020 so Thanksgiving will be a little different this year. Not only will our dinner tables likely be smaller, there is also a likelihood that we will run into political disagreements, but there is a silver lining. While you may not agree with your relatives, that is okay.
We each perceive things differently. Even if we are given the same exact information, we may reach a different conclusion because there is no objective reality or truth. There is only our perception of a situation. So whoever you voted for, know that the person who voted for the other guy has probably done so with the same level of introspection as you have.
And don’t stereotype everyone who voted a different way. Each person votes for certain reasons and they are all valid. What you think they are thinking may not be the case, and even if it is, all it means is that they are thinking thoughts or holding beliefs a little different from yours. Often, your values are the same, but each of you believe those values can be achieved in a different way.
So when you are at the Thanksgiving table, you may want to talk about something else, particularly when someone’s passion seems to circumvent reason. At the same time, you should not agree for the sake of agreeing. Speak your truth, agree to disagree and move on. And listen. Listening can only broaden your mind and it will definitely enhance your relationships.
And for your own peace of mind, turn down the volume by reducing media time. Turn your attention to your family or a passion. Take the time to do what you love and find joy in the little things. Above all, be grateful for what you do have. In spite of the pandemic, we all have much to be thankful for!
For more on this topic listen to our podcast episode titled Thanksgiving 2020: Peace, Politics and Gratitude
Comments are closed