Three Diet Rules You Should Break Now

free_2525952Diet Rule One: Weigh Yourself Daily

Many people weigh themselves every day when dieting so they can see the downward trend. It is motivating, at least at first, but eventually weight loss will slow down. That’s natural. And you don’t want to derail your plans because you gain a pound or two of water weight. We recommend weighing yourself just once each month. This way, you are free from the scale most of the time, but you will still be able to monitor your progress.

Diet Rule Two: Exclude Bad Foods from Your Diet

There are no bad foods. Some are healthier than others and we do recommend that you move toward a healthy normal, but deprivation is not the answer to a sustained weight loss. To keep losing weight while not depriving yourself of the foods you love, eat your favorites in moderation. Some of you might say we don’t understand. If you could eat in moderation, you would. You always eat the whole bag of chips or you feel you need the Supersized meal. But we say, we get it. We do understand. We know that once you change your mind, your thinking will be totally different! And the weight will just melt off while you are enjoying the foods you love.

Diet Rule Three: Start Your Diet on Monday

Why wait? Wait–why diet? Dieting doesn’t work. So implement a healthy lifestyle and do it right away! You may need to do a bit of planning before actually starting a program, but changing your thinking can start now! Some of our readers have reported that they started to lose weight by just reading the book, and before implementing any of our recommendations.

In our book, we provide an anecdote where we dispel the myth that you need to change your outside circumstances to accommodate an eating plan. Rather, you can just adapt your food choices to your current lifestyle. No worries about going to that party and feeling deprived. You can enjoy your life while losing weight! If you would like more information about our holistic approach to weight loss, visit

If you want to lose weight, DO NOT make it your New Year’s resolution!

bookAccording to, just 8% of people will achieve their New Year’s resolutions.  And we believe that one of the reasons behind this—at least as far as dieting is concerned– is that losing weight is a process, and not an event. So if you have been stocking up on celery and carrot sticks and determined to lose X amount of pounds by a certain date in 2015, stop now.  Did you really think this through?

Why Past Attempts Failed

Think of all the weight loss attempts you made in the past. Did those sudden, frenzied tries result in permanent weight loss? Obviously not, or you wouldn’t be contemplating it again.  In our book Change Your Mind : Lose Weight, we explain the importance of your beliefs and thought patterns. If you did not change your thinking in the past, it is not surprising that your weight loss results were temporary.

It’s All About Changing Your Mind

It is important to get your mind ready for weight loss.  In our book, we explain how your thoughts enter the picture and how you can control your Monkey Mind so it does not influence your eating. We also show you how to conquer emotional eating through emotional intelligence. And really, that is just the tip of the iceberg.

What Our Program Will Do For You

Our program is different. Some of our readers reported that the change in mindset occurred simply by reading the first chapters, even before they began to take action. The book also provides the tools needed to eat healthfully and to exercise in a way that is enjoyable. Most important, there is no deprivation. No foods are bad foods! So on January 1st there is no need to clear the cupboards. And with a multitude of coaching exercises, owning this book is almost like having your own personal life coach in your pocket.

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There has never been a better time to lose that weight for good. Just don’t do it without the proper planning such a life-changing experience deserves.

Instead of making half-hearted attempts at weight loss for which you are unprepared, make a commitment to read Change Your Mind: Lose Weight in 2015 and apply its painless principles until you achieve your weight loss goal.

Losing the Baby Weight : It has Never Been Easier (Part 4 of 4)

 You’re on the path. You are reading our book and starting to lose weight, or you have simply adopted healthier habits. You are sleeping more now, feeling better about yourself, and you finally feel like a separate human being, distinct from the little person you brought into the world weeks or months ago. As you get back to your pre-pregnancy shape, you will feel better each day. Take time to achieve your goal. A bit of patience goes a long way!

 Your body will need time to get back to normal.

  • Be patient.
  • Meditate daily on the reasons why you want that body back.
  • Think about making your new healthy habits a lifestyle, something that will not only create a better life for you but for your family as well.

Keep in mind that when you take care of yourself, it affects those around you. When you feed yourself well, you will probably also be feeding your family better. Healthy living is contagious!

Whether this is your first baby, or you have other children, you will want to incorporate healthy habits as a lifestyle. 

Next week, we will give you tips on how to incorporate these habits so that your entire family benefits!

Losing the Baby Weight : How to do it (Part 3 of 4)

Gaining weight from pregnancy is perfectly normal.  When you are pregnant, you need the extra weight to nourish and physically carry a growing baby.

The amount of weight you gained during those nine months will dictate how much weight you will probably want to lose. Or if you were overweight to begin with, this is a great time to set new goals.

How to Eat

If you are nursing, know that nursing burns extra calories so even if you feel like you are not doing very much, your body is working extra hard. This does not mean you should overeat. On the contrary, use this time to burn those calories so you shrink down to your normal self naturally.

Start by eating as healthfully as possible. In order to lose weight, you will also need to cut your calorie consumption, unless you are breastfeeding.   If you are thinking you can’t do this because you don’t want to give up your favorite foods, it is not a problem. You won’t have to. Just eat smaller portions of everything you normally consume. But if you want to make a more significant nutritional change, our book Change Your Mind: Lose Weight can coach you through the transition.

 How to Exercise

Your body has changed and it is your core that has mostly been affected. You want that flat stomach back, but targeting only one body part never works.  We touched on this in a previous post titled “Attaining the “Perfect” Body is All About Changing Your Mind.” Basically, you need a holistic approach in order to get to your new healthy normal, and getting your pre-pregnancy shape back will require more than a walk in the park.

So you will need to do an all around good workout that includes stretching, aerobics and strength training.

There is No Hurry

If you just had your baby a few days ago, you are not ready to implement anything. Relax. Read Part 1 of this series where we talk about the necessity to nurture the self.

When will you be ready to get back to it? There is no magic formula.  Listen to your body, and follow your health care provider’s recommendations. You will soon be at a place where you can start to get your body back.

Losing the Baby Weight : Getting Your Mind Ready (Part 2 of 4)

In order to prepare yourself for weight loss, you have to know where you are. This means we are going to ask you to step on the scale.

 It’s scary. We know. Whether you just had a baby or you gained a bit of weight, the scale can seem like the enemy.

It is especially a unique experience after you have a baby because you have been purposefully carrying extra weight, eating more, and exercising less in order to grow the little human being inside you. But once that process is over you want to get back to your normal self, and that can be frightening, especially when you have no idea what you weigh.

We say, just do it. Get your number. Then ask yourself a few questions to prepare your mind:

    • Am I ready?
    • What are my strengths?
    • What happened the last time I tried to lose weight?
    • What obstacles stopped me from losing weight?
    • How am I going to overcome obstacles this time?

Revisit those questions daily.

And remember, if you fall off track one day, you did not fail! It is a temporary setback. Simply use it as a learning experience and do plan to do better the following day! 

Eating better and exercising works as long as you make it a routine. Consistency and perseverance will give you the results you desire.

For more on getting the mind ready, read our book Change Your Mind: Lose Weight. Not only will it provide tips on how often to weigh yourself but it will help you to design a game plan to lose weight at any point in your life.